How to Become a Sugar Baby for Newbies

Sugar dating continues to gain more attention all around the world, and there is a continuous rise in interest and participants. One popular sugar dating platform has admitted to having over 14 million sugar babies and over 3.5 million sugar daddies, so the overall number of people involved in sugaring on all online platforms is surely over 20 million.

As for me, I couldn’t pass up such a tempting opportunity to meet a sugar baby and enter a professional arrangement with her to become an expert and share advice on how to become a sugar baby, what to do to succeed in sugaring, and where to seek potential suitors and model-like companions.

Who is a Sugar Baby? 

Sugar babies are much younger girls who date older guys in exchange for different benefits. These girls meet men’s expectations regarding behavior, appearance, companionship, attention, and possible physical needs in order to receive financial support or/and mentorship from them. To be a successful sugar baby, a woman should have an open conversation with sugar daddy and ask who he wants by his side and what he offers in return.

I’ve also researched the origin of this phrase and found out several interesting facts. Many believe that ‘sugar’ is slang for money, while ‘baby’ refers to young women who accept financial help from older men. Put together, the words form the expression ‘sugar baby.’

Another version of the ‘sugar baby’ term origin is associated with Adolph Spreckels, an heir of the Spreckels sugar fortune. He married a girl who was much younger than he, and she called him ‘sugar daddy’, and he addressed her as ‘sugar baby’ respectively.

Things to know before: What it means to be a Sugar Baby

I’ve interviewed lots of girls with a sugar dating experience, and only a few of them received advice from colleagues and friends on how to be a sugar baby. A vast majority have done that intuitively and admitted to having lots of obstacles and challenges on their way.

If you have considered the opportunity of becoming a sugar baby at least once in life, you should first understand what it means to have this status:

• Dating a man you see for the first time, smiling at him, and spending time not only in public places but also when you’re alone.
• Being always available at the time he asks for a date or time together.
• Getting paid not like at a job. If you have a PPM sugar daddy, you can get money for one date. However, many sugar daddies want to have regular dates, so they set an allowance amount and pay it on a weekly or monthly basis if a sugar baby meets their expectations.
• Being ready to travel together. Some sugar daddies take their sweet companions on vacations and business trips, and any rejections can lead to the loss of a generous suitor.
• Understanding that many sugar relationships are transactional. A sugar baby may have several sugar daddies and be left at any time without any explanation.
• Safety issues. Unfortunately, new sugar babies often suffer from fraudsters and get into unpleasant situations. It’s vital to do background checks, have first dates in public places, protect your identity, use separate phone numbers, and prioritize sexual health if you have physical intimacy.

Are you ready for these challenges? If you agree with all these points and don’t consider them awkward, you’re ready to enter this exclusive type of relationship.

Sugar Baby’s Checklist for Beginners

No matter whether you’re becoming a sugar baby online or in real life, I want to share several important rules that every new sugar baby should know to stay well and smart:

How can you actually become a sugar baby?

Many girls find lots of excuses why they can’t become sugar babies: some mention being out of the sugar baby age range, others explain that they don’t know where to seek sugar daddies. 

Luckily for ladies, they have enough possibilities of becoming sugar babies nowadays:

• Online sugar dating sites. It’s better to enter the world of sugar dating through the most popular websites like SecretBenefits, SugarDaddy, or LuxuryDate. SecretBenefits is well-known for its huge audience and good male-to-female ratio, while SugarDaddy is absolutely free for users who want to become sugar babies. LuxuryDate is probably the best spot to meet a millionaire since this platform attracts wealthy men, but the competition for them is more severe, too.
• Sugar community. You can browse forums or ask people you know whether they can recommend any community interested in mutually beneficial arrangements. When you find someone who can introduce you to the right people, your chances of becoming a sugar baby will grow immediately.
• Posh places visited by wealthy men. Girls can visit restaurants and spa centers, gyms and golf clubs, male shopping areas, and business centers to meet a potential companion there. Naturally, it’s important to take initiative and undertake actions that can attract a man, so this approach is for courageous and creative women, first of all.

Modern girls have different ways to become sugar babies, but special niche websites are considered to be the most success-oriented nowadays. 

Being a sugar baby is a talent!

Many girls believe that they can be a sugar baby like most others, but I think that not every lady can succeed in this role. It’s similar to being a queen – not every woman has gained recognition and respect in history, so not every girl can be interesting to a man who is much older, wiser, and prosperous. I’m sure that ladies should learn to be sugar babies, and this is one of the reasons why I decided to write this piece! The combination of intelligence, talent, creativity, and effort can make any woman a diamond rich men will hunt for!